session 2

Session 2—

Social Rituals and Mantras sau

poate chiar Social Habits- cum ai trimis

-          Social support

-          This is the common element of the happiest people

-          Eric Berne – Games People Play

-          The interaction we have based on…”Games”

-          How are you?

-          The most common exchange can become funny, weird or outlandish

-          Safari, Africa…after many years of two strokes conversation

-          Live in the present, would translate into

-          Spending time with family, friends, the partner

-          More broadly, the social circle which can provide the partner, if there isn’t one

-          Join the group we have…

-          Address here  ):

-          This is where the joke with golf, sex and work fits in

-          The possible cartoon inserted??

-          How to get close to partners

-          Pay attention to them

-          Get to Know them in detail

-          John Gottman- you take from the other slides or just in fact pick your new pics

-          Shahar and insistence on the wrong image we project

·         Eric Berne

·         One of the games most played

·         If It Weren’t For You

·         Avoid this trap

-          How to Win friends and Influence People

-          Using compliments, smiles not criticism

-          The principle of Liking

-          Reciprocity

-          The cards sent to strangers…caused a reply

-          The salesmen techniques of giving you a “free gift” to provoke reciprocity

-          Hare Krishna flowers

-          Rules of social success that cause happiness:

-          Spend more time socializing

-          Less at the office

-          Spend $ on experiences not on material things

-          Strong family ties bring benefits at work

-          The ultimate currency is

-          Happiness, not the Yen or British pound

-          Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Flow

-          Conversation can bring you “in the zone”

-          And of course

-          Socrates has used the Socratic Method or

-          Dialectic Method

-          Through which two people holding opposite views could

-          Reach an understanding …

-          Maybe even Bliss, Nirvana…Love, which is

-          “A Many-Splendored Thing”

-          Das Ewig Weibliche Zieht Uns Hinan

-          We could try and socialize together in some manner or form