Imagine the Best
Possible Self,
Calling, Variety,
Lasagna Effect
The Science of Happiness has
established that Imagining the
Best Possible Self and/or Future
can help you improve your well-being
In the Present
Indeed, if you think that the
future will bring you all that you want, you are
Happy, at least while you dream
about it
However, it is not only that,
for this exercise is placing you in an optimistic frame of mind
In addition, being positive, confident has been
proved to have immense benefits, ranging from
A longer life to more success in private and
professional spheres
In addition, Words Create Worlds, as Harvard
Professor Tal Ben-Shahar likes to say-
Therefore, if you have positive, creative and
wondrous thoughts about the future,
You increase your chances of getting there, by
sketching the outlines of the landscape you will create
In my case, I am thinking about
what happens when you are at a crossroads
This could be the excellent
opportunity to Imagine the Best Possible Future
A change has just been imposed, to a certain
extent, on the undersigned:
In fact, there are two.
Let me just write about the
easiest part, even if it may turn out to be more complex
Alternatively, to have a bigger impact anyway:
I have been a member of this club for about ten
or twelve years and I even used it before it was opened…
There was another pool there and in the nineties,
I used to swim and go to the sauna there, when Vali was manager.
My membership has expired and I am facing a
period of waiting for an offer or, given the Hedonic Adaptation phenomenon, to
just abandon the outfit altogether
The final last days have been rather
humiliating, but the details of that would be listed in the Dealing with
Adversity stories.
There is a distinct possibility that I decide
to forgo the advantages of the membership, if I stay out for too long.
Considering for many minutes the attitude of some
employees will not help a decision to continue either.
This could, what am I saying- will have an
impact on health, wellbeing and everything else, including the social aspects.
It is likely that I will decide to pay the fee,
after I manage to get the much higher expense with the Lycee Francais and beginning
of 2018 expenses out of the way…
That is just about $ 10,000 to start the year
with…
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